Tiny changes equal BIG shifts

Tiny changes equal BIG shifts

A personal note from Victoria:

Having effective and trusted resources is an essential part of my wellness journey and also when I support others on theirs.

I’m not available for personal consultations. But it’s important to me that you have the same tools to lean on and have some next steps to follow to help you on YOUR way.

Whether you’re a health professional, an employer, an individual who wants to help someone on their journey to wellness or just plain ol’ wants to thrive more in in life, these resources and e-guides are for you.

There are thousands of mental health websites and resources available. These are the ones I use and trust most. Some are region specific, many are not. Not all will be applicable to your particular situation. But I encourage you to take a look at each. Then reach out to those that are a good fit.

If there’s a crisis please remember your first step is to call 911 or visit your nearest emergency department. Or contact your local crisis centre. You can find a list of numbers here: http://www.bdwellness.com/help/crisis  

Here’s to hope. Here’s to your wellness.

We can all be mentally healthy and flourish.

Downloadable E-Guides

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Mental Health Resource & Tips Guide Click to download. Or scroll down to see them listed below.

Catalyst for Creativity & Courage Booklist  Click to download or click here.

For a list of mental health and wellness books, please click here and scroll down.

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Mental Health Resources

1. Recommended mental health websites, organizations and support groups: These websites and affiliated local support groups are rich in resources and experience. Try more than one support group. The first one you try may not be the right fit for you.

I can tell you from personal experience, support groups give me much needed hope, motivation and information. Having a chance to talk and listen with people who have been where you have can be incredibly helpful.

Canadian Mental Health Association (branches located all across Canada)
Mental Health America (branches located all across the US, parts of Canada)
Mood Disorders Society of Canada
National Alliance on Mental Illness (branches located in the US, parts of Canada)
Anxiety BC
Anxiety and Depression Association of America
Schizophrenia Society of Canada (branches across Canada; some services are applicable for all mental illnesses)
Also see #6 and #11

2. Finding good health professionals in your area Find a support group and attend a meeting. While there don’t be shy about asking for referrals to good counselors. Word of mouth is the best testament of a health professional. Or call one of the above organizations and ask who, what clinic or what steps they would recommend in order to find the appropriate clinician.

Mental Health America has a very good page with lots of tips and links about finding a health provider.

3. Chatrooms and on-line communities If you’re not comfortable or unable to attend a support group many of the above websites have chatrooms and on-line communities where you can get great suggestions.

4. Dr. Xavier Amador has a great book “I don’t need Help, I’m Not Sick”. He created the LEAP program which gives family members tools to help someone in ‘denial’ of mental illness accept treatment. It is also designed to help people in general to resolve conflict and communicate effectively.

Check Dr. Amador’s referrals page to find clinicians who work with his method.

5. Julie Fast (coaching service + book) and her book ‘Loving Someone with Bipolar Disorder’. Julie is a woman who has bipolar disorder herself and is an expert in helping families and partners of those with bipolar disorder. Her books are extremely popular and well respected.

6. Bipolar Caregivers Although specifically for those who have a loved one with bipolar disorder, the strategies and tips offered are very helpful for anyone supporting a person with mental illness.

7. My blog post4 Steps to Help Someone When They Don’t Want It (you may have already ready it) offers concrete suggestions, resources and links to two other posts about helping your adult child.

8. 7 Cups of Tea is a way to speak to someone on-line for support. Free, anonymous and confidential.

9. Mental Health America Click their ‘Find Help’ icon on their menu bar and look at the dropdown box. They have links to pages with excellent strategies and tools if you’re looking for help for yourself or for someone else.

10. Dr. Lloyd Sederer’s TEDxAlbany talk ‘When Mental Illness Enters the Family’ This TedX talk offers excellent tips for parents, loved ones and others when supporting someone who is struggling with mental health issues but isn’t able to see they need help.

In addition to his talk, he has a widely praised book “The Family Guide to Mental Health Care: Advice on Helping Your Loved Ones”.

11. International Bipolar Foundation Excellent website with information that can apply to conditions beyond bipolar disorder. Their archived video section is particularly good. This page has their resources for those who have a loved one with bipolar disorder.

12. BD Wellness Centre Full disclosure: I’m part of the research team that helped create this. This website has great evidence based resources and tools for those living with bipolar disorder.

Especially good is a free tool that assesses quality of life that can be used as a discussion piece with healthcare providers or team and help guide next steps in treatment and wellness plans.

13. Sarri Gilman’s excellent TEDx video and book about setting boundaries is very helpful. Her website is and her book Transforming Your Boundaries are both excellent guides.

14. bpHope website and bp magazine. Excellent articles, on-line community that provides practical tips, tools and hope. Though focused on bipolar disorder, again check it out as some info can apply to others conditions.

15. Mental Health First Aid Effective programs that teach how to respond when someone is in a mental health crisis or developing a mental health issue. Courses are available across the country. Check out the site for the USA  and Australia

16. Not Myself Today A well respected fee-based program for employers to help create mentally healthy workplaces. It’s an evidence-informed, practical solution focused on building understand, reducing stigma and fostering supportive work cultures.

17. Mind  has a free download about how to support staff who are experiencing a mental health problem. Visit Mind to find other good resources.

18. Mental Health Commission of Canada The commission develops and disseminates Canadian mental health programs and resources. Of particular interest may be their webinars that range from recovery topics to workplace issues. Even if you are based in a country other than Canada, much of the information will still be applicable.

19. Please remember if you or someone you know is in a mental health crisis your first step is to call 911, visit your nearest emergency department or contact your local crisis centre. You can find a list of numbers here.